Kindness
Colossians 3:12 (NKJV)
“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering.”
Let’s start with Paul’s initial words in this scripture: “Therefore, as the elect of God.” These words set the tone for the rest of the passage. He is saying: because you are the elect of God, this is how you are to live and demonstrate godly character as God’s chosen people. He’s reminding believers of who they are—chosen, set apart, and loved by God. Because of that identity, kindness isn’t optional; it’s expected.
We know that kindness is a fruit of the Spirit, as stated in Galatians 5:22:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.”
Let’s take a closer look at the word kindness in a biblical sense. Its Greek definition gives an in-depth meaning. It states that kindness is useful, profitable, and serviceable. It is kindness that is usable for what is really needed in the moment. This kindness is produced by the Spirit to meet real needs—in God’s way and in His timing.
This is going to go beyond words. It will carry into actions. The Holy Spirit aligns our actions with God’s heart, guiding us to help others according to His timing and purpose. When we yield to His leading, our compassion becomes more than a feeling, it becomes a reflection of God’s love in motion.
In other words, being kind isn’t something we do when it’s convenient, it’s who we are called to be. As God’s chosen people, we represent His nature. Since God is kind, His children must reflect that same kindness. With that said, this kind of kindness isn’t based on how you feel or on whether someone deserves it. It flows from the character of God within you. True kindness is a reflection of God’s grace, freely given, even when it’s not earned. Kindness any other way is worldly kindness. It may look good on the outside but lacks the heart of God. Worldly kindness says, “I’ll be kind if you’re kind to me,” or “if it benefits me.” It is based on how you feel in the moment.
When Jesus showed kindness, it was never empty, it was useful and profitable. He fed the hungry, healed the sick, and comforted the hurting. His kindness met real needs, both physical and spiritual.
Yes, we are empowered by the Holy Spirit to be kind, but it also requires continual surrender on our part. The power to show true, Christlike kindness is already within us, but it only flows freely when we yield our will, emotions, and reactions to God. This surrender means pausing before responding, allowing the Spirit to guide your actions and words instead of your feelings.